I am me
In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me
Everything that comes out of me is authentically me
Because I alone chose it – I own everything about me
My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions,
Whether they be to others or to myself – I own my fantasies,
My dreams, my hopes, my fears – I own all my triumphs and Continue Reading »
Recently I received an e-mail from a wonderful and very insightful girl called Emily. The article below is what I would like Emily to read as my reply. It was written by Christine Kane. I just love what Christine teaches us!
Written by Christine Kane
Somewhere along the way, we learn to avoid things that are uncomfortable.
“Hey look at this,” we think. “If I just stay here in the middle – away from the sharp edges – then I don’t get too banged up.”
Slowly, our passions and goals stop being about what we want to create or who we dream of becoming. Continue Reading »
Who are you? No, I am not asking about your name, age, occupation or other obvious facts. I am asking about the secret ‘My self-esteem sticker book’ you started a long time ago (or, to be precise, it was started for you).
It might reside in the ‘attic’ of your brain and rarely come out or it might be so ‘cherished’ that you turn to its favourite pages quite often and are even show it to others.
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While it is common to blame inability to plan on depression,
I would like you to consider the possible costs of not planning your day in advance:
- You may believe there are no reasons to get out of bed and follow your morning routine.
- You may see no point and/or feel no urgency in doing anything during the day.
- You may engage yourself in negative self-talk and feeling sorry for yourself as soon as you are awake, as your mind is free of tasks, responsibilities and any excitement.
- You may feel pessimistic and lethargic during the day, as you follow no purpose and no passion. Nothing energises you!
- You may feel that your life does not belong to you and you are not in control of your decisions and lifestyle.
- You may feel drained and drowned by routine and boredom.
- You may feel stuck, trapped and powerless.
- You may feel overwhelmed by the amount of things to be done.
- You may feel unimportant and insignificant.
- You may deprive yourself of fun, hobbies and relaxation as you feel you don’t deserve them.
- You may feel stressed by things that should have been done yesterday or things that require your immediate attention.
- You may regret wasting another day away and go to bed disappointed and defeated.
As you can see failing to plan your day ahead of time is surely a plan to fail. This strategy will erode your self-esteem and will continue to drive you deeper into the darkness of feeling helpless, hopeless and inadequate.
When depressed, you cannot afford to enter another day without planning ahead of time!
Next time, I will illustrate this core message with some examples. Until then…
Stay strong, remain hopeful and seek inspiration!
Read the illustration here (Click on the title): To Plan or Not to Plan: A story of two approaches…
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